Friday, May 21, 2010

Home again

Finally back from our three weeks in the US! I have three plump suitcases sitting in the dining room, partially dug though with lots of goodies (mostly books). It was a nice visit but pretty quick even if it was three weeks, and it was pretty exhausting too. I've got the travel alone with two small kids down pat but I'm still reeling from the stress of it all. You get lots of help traveling with a baby in a stroller* but as soon as that baby hits two and can walk nobody helps you with anything. And age two is the worst for travel because of the escape factor. I think I grew eyes in the back of my head on this trip. But we made it okay both ways somehow.

While I was away we decided that we'll be going to China. Seb hasn't found another job here and he has a good job waiting for him there with the opportunity to learn a new language. Even if I'm skeptical about it all (because of Mexico and the ruptured contract) I have to admit it is exciting. Our biggest worry is Little S but I think he'll have to be changing schools, public to private, here anyway. At least we have a little fund money in the expat contract to find him a good school there and if it all goes badly then I'll consider homeschooling.

We are super busy finishing the house so we can rent it out by the end of Summer. It's starting to look really nice--yet another finished house we'll be leaving! I know how that feels so maybe I'll be a little more prepared this time for the emotional wave of handing over the keys to a home you've put all of your sweat and tears into. Like last time lots of people are asking us about renting our house on the cheap. We have offers to housesit for three years (free), one year offers, and people wanting to stuff families of five in the house (my neighbor whose boys are always catching things on fire and their house is wrecked--eek!). It's hard to say no because it's people we know who live in the village but our goal is to finish the house and rent it correctly through an agency for the market price. We can't risk everything on someone not paying the rent this time and we can't reduce the rent this time either. We want a big security deposit too because our renter in Th*n*n has really wrecked our wood floors in the three years he's been there. They'll have to be stripped when he leaves. You don't know this until you do this once because you go in very doe eyed. We've learned the hard way to cash the security deposit check right away.

I'm busy but I hope I'll be able to keep up the blogging. I took a three week break and it was nice not to think about the computer. Sometimes it's nice just to step away.


*now you can only bring one suitcase per person on most airlines so bringing a stroller counts as a piece of baggage--I had to leave the stroller with Seb at check in

13 comments:

deedee said...

I'm curious about what books you brought back...any hints on ones I should look for in July?
You are getting to be a seasoned ex-patter! China may be a great opportunity to find a better school for S. Looking forward to following your continued adventures missChris :)

Jennifer said...

China! WOW! Can you say where or is it still too early? I am very excited for you. Think of all the inspiration.

I look forward to seeing the finished house if you decide to post pictures. I love how you two have finished houses now scattered around France waiting for you as you travel the world. It's kind of romantic if you don't think about the hassle of tenants.

Good luck with everything!

You can only take ONE suitcase per person on international flights now too????

Penny said...

Wow how exciting!! Sounds like a good time to be making big changes anyway. Do you think you'd look for an english or french speaking school for S? Good luck finishing up the house for renting (3 year housesit - what a laugh!!). I look forward to following your next adventures :)

JChevais said...

Holy cow! China! It has indeed been a long time since I trolled blogs! Wow.

Lauren said...

As others have said - WOW! What an adventurous family! Best of luck witht hte transition!

Where the wild ones grow said...

Glad to see you back. Good luck in China. Looking forward to reading more about that and about school choices etc.

Maria

Alison said...

What an adventure!

Anonymous said...

Chris, while you were away an
article appeared in the NY Times
which made me think of little S.
You can search the Times site
with Little-known disorder can take
a toll on learning. You do have
to register with the Times in order to use their site but it
doesn't take long, and I think
you will find it very interesting.
the disorder is called Auditory
Processing Disorder. Wow, China
and another language!

Sheila

christine said...

meredith - mostly cookbooks and design books but also two David Sedaris books I've never read (but won't have time to read now...) I've heard it's imposible to get English language books in China and the bookstores who do have them are 3x the price, --enter paranoia.

Jennifer - yes one suitcase but obviously you can pay to take more. We'll be going to Shanghai for the three years which means big city life, fun but not what I want for a long term. By the end of the three years I'll be ready to get back to my little French village life.

Penny - I'd like to find him an English school (British) but in Shanghai these schools are really expensive. He keeps asking me if he can go to an english speaking school. A chinese school isn't an option, even a bilingual one so I think the French school will be the best choice by default. I'd just like to find him a school with really small classes, 15 maximum.

Sheila - thanks I'll check it out :) We're excited to learn chinese!

Erica said...

China! How exciting! Glad to hear that you had a nice trip and I look forward to reading about your new adventures in China.

Good luck with the move!

Alyssa said...

Congratulations on the big decision and the new life! All the best to you!

hexe said...

Congats on the decision and the move. Best of luck with the packing and house rental.

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