Monday, September 06, 2010

It's rentrée time

a really pretty pre-fall morning, rentrée 2010

not yet aware that the parents don't stay the whole time

Last week as everyone in France knows it was La Rentrée which is a big BIG deal here because not only do the kids start school but all of the families come back from vacation and there's a huge electric buzz in the air. It's a festive time but it's a little stressful all at the same time, hard to explain really unless you experience it living here. It involves a lot of long winded conversations with even the most casual acquaintances always starting with "how was your vacation?" and then "wellllll..." yet at the same time you know, you're in a really big hurry every minute of every day preparing for La Rentrée and getting the school supply list going so you dash and run and try to plan to see people for coffee to catch up because "who has time!!"

little S's class, CP

For us it was a big year because Little S started CP (like first grade in the US) and Charlotte started her first year of Maternelle in Petite Section. Little S was stressed because he'd been told all the rules of the playground at the end the school year last year and he was sure they were going to be ripping his childhood to shreds "on a meme pas le doit de jouer a cache-cache!" I'm not sure how true that is that they can't play hide and seek but he seemed really bothered by the transition. I felt it too when I had to buy him red ballpoint pens and rulers. "Wow he's not even six yet..." When he got to school he was relaxed because of course he saw all his friends and they all looked a little scared too so it was okay after that. He still says he hates school though and I have a hard time biting my tongue not to say "me too!!" Charlotte was a bit more tricky of course since it's her first time in school. She cried for three hours straight her first day. Then her second day she cried for three more hours! "c'est normale--c'est l'adaptation," but it is hard to walk away when they're crying like that. She only goes for half days so I think she'll adjust. The morning goes by so fast and I think they'll make it fun for her.

in the courtyard at school, that's his teacher in the background, the stocky man in the beige coat

The two schools are about five minutes apart by car and the race to get the two at lunch is comical. I barely have time to say a word to Charlotte's teacher and woosh we're off running, keys in hand to get Little S who is basically standing on the sidewalk waiting for us--pushed out the door by his school! I guess you just develop a rhythm but for now I'm all off kilter trying to remember who goes where at what time and how to time it all.

worried, this was before we went inside his school--and charlotte with her dou-dou, Dixie

Seb left for China yesterday, another sort of rentrée and his first weeks at his new job should tell us a lot so I was kind of happy to have him go to see firsthand what the company is like. If it's crazy disorganized he'll just resign and we won't take the chance. We'll just stay in France. I think it should be okay though. I mean I hope so because we're pretty excited to go but at least we have a four month safety net just in case.

10 comments:

Penny said...

Our kids have the same age gap so we had that rentrée last year, when one starts petite section and the other CP. Its a big one for both of them (and for you!). I hope Charlotte stops crying soon and little S settles in nicely to the changes that CP brings :)

L Vanel said...

I was giving L the update on your fabulous summer vacation and we vowed to always go through an agency if we put anything up for rent! I had to laugh at the caption under Charlotte's picture. Hope things settle down for them both, and especially that the situation in China is wonderful.

Jennifer said...

I LOVE the caption you have for the first pic of Charlotte "Not yet aware that the parents don't stay the whole time." HAHA! I laughed out loud, then felt bad because she seems so sweet.

It is waaaaaay more laid-back in Italy. No way do they let you leave the kids at school without staying with them. The first day of everything is always just a few hours, and when they are little you have to stay there with them the first week. I used to think it was ridiculous but now I guess I am used to it.

They don't even give us the list of things to buy until the end of September! Ha ha. Who knows what they do until then.

Everything is so much slower and they baby the kids a lot more.

Maybe this is why the Italians never grow up?

Some close friends of ours are going through a similar situation. The dad is away starting a new job in another country and she is here with the kids waiting to see if he likes it and if they will all move there in a few months. He just started and is enthusiastic so far. I hope it works out for you guys in the best possible way.

Erica said...

I keep thinking that if we were still in France then Julien would be starting in the Petite Section (since he and Charlotte are only 3 days apart). Sophia just started kindergarten here in the US, and I can't imagine that it will be another 2 years (at least) before Julien starts school here.

I hope Charlotte adjusts soon and that the schedule gets easier!

christine said...

Penny - Thanks it's been a stressful rentrée with two big changes but it will hopefully settle down.

Lucy - I'm going to do a "I wish I'd known that" blog post for people who are thinking of renting a place in France. There's so much we didn't know. My lease which I printed off the internet was joke. He could have legally stayed for a long time without paying anything.

Jennifer - I think the Italian way sounds more to my liking. It's awful to have to drag her into the class and have her clinging to my leg when I leave. I feel AWFUL.

Funny about your friends. I think it's hard to decide to go if you have a good situation and your kids are settled. First reports from Seb are good though and he really likes being there again so I think we'll be going unless some awful thing creeps into his contract negotiations.

Erica - but yes you know that PS is really just preschool in disguise...except that it's free which is awesome.

Erica said...

It's free and can be all day! Julien is currently just doing two mornings a week at a French preschool here. I think he would love to be there more -- and it would be nice to have a bit more time to myself -- but it is quite expensive.

Anonymous said...

Dear Christine, I read your blog, remember us, Sebastian played with Little S in TLB. We live currently in Manila (since 2 years) but will most probably move to Bejing around Christmas. Sebastian also started first year in August, he is doing the int'l curriculum, which is not like the French system where kids have to sit already 6 hours at their desk. Take the opportunity in Shangai to put Little S maybe one year back (he just turned 6 , is not it? If you want , you can give me your email, so I can give you some ideas. Remember, I also always wanted to homeschool, but as I am working it is difficult. But I do some homeschooling on weekends. I taught him to read etc. Hope to speak to you soon. Yes, we miss Marin too, we went one month during summer, mainly hiking,-it was great. Bye for now,
Iris

christine said...

Hello Iris good to hear from you guys. I don't have my e-mail linked on here since I like to keep the blog private. Are you on Facebook by chance?

christine said...

Hello Iris good to hear from you guys. I don't have my e-mail linked on here since I like to keep the blog private. Are you on Facebook by chance?

Anonymous said...

Dear Christine,
I found your email and sent a message to you. Is your gmail address still valid?

Bye for now,

Iris